Carers Week - "If it wasn't for the Hospice I'd feel so alone."
Pete had been struggling with ill health for over 40 years and when his GP suggested Saint Francis Hospice could help him and his wife Linda, they had no idea it would also bring them joy, new friends, and ease mental health challenges that seemed insurmountable.
Pete needed 24-hour care after a rare skin condition led to a range of health problems including arthritis, epilepsy and being partially sighted.
"If it wasn't for the Hospice I'd feel so alone," said Linda.
"Recently Pete was in so much pain and we were unable to get through to the doctors.
"I was desperate. I called the Hospice's 24-hour helpline, and within an hour, Pete's prescription was ready. I've even called at 2am and there was someone at the end of the phone to give advice."
Before lockdown, Linda and Pete, who are both 69, loved attending the day services at Pemberton Place where they enjoyed meeting people and taking part in art and craft therapy sessions.
And while the services are currently on hold, Linda still keeps in touch with a friend she made at Pemberton Place.
Linda has also been having regular counselling from Briony Townshend from the Family Support team to help her to cope with the challenges she faces as Pete's full-time carer.
"I get good and bad days and it really helps that I can chat with Briony and off load that way I am not bottling up my feelings," said Linda.
"There are things I can say to Briony that I can't say to my family because even though they are really supportive, I know they would be upset."
Briony was also able to advocate on Linda's behalf so the 3 hours of respite she received a week for carers to come in and assist with Pete's needs, was increased to 14.
Sadly Pete died in November and the Hospice was there to care and support both Pete and Linda all the way. Linda gave her blessing for her story to be shared in the hope it will help someone else who finds themselves in a similar position as a carer for a loved one.
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